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St. Paul School of Leadership & Discipleship Lesson 242 HOW TO MAKE AND KEEP A FRIEND (Provebs: "The Get Smart Book") By Frank Eiklor and the Shalom Team "A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." Proverbs 18:24 Here is the Father's loving answer to any of us who wish we had more or better friends. 1) You don't wait to take a friend; you work to make a friend.
2) Having "a friend that sticketh closer than a brother" can be viewed a couple of ways: a) a trustworthy and loyal friend in the Lord can be more faithful than a loved one in the flesh, and b) the one friendship that will never fail you is that offered by God Himself. There are examples of incredible friendships in the Scripture: God and Abraham; Naomi and Ruth; Jonathan and David; Elijah and Elisha; Jesus and the disciples; Paul and Timothy, etc. These were what true friendships should be—relationships that brought a godly influence. Let me offer my own simple recipe for being a lasting friend.
1) Develop a priority friendship with Jesus. 2) Don't give out nor take in gossip. 3) Don't lay on a friend all your problems (unless that friend is God). 4) Be real. Throw away all your masks. 5) Remember that your love can risk being vulnerable to a true friend (because you are secure in the love of your best Friend, the Lord). 6) Accept the fact that true friendships are not unlike marriage. There will be conflicts that help nurture a blending of wills. 7) Care enough about friends that you recoil from ever doing them harm. 8) Know that true friendship always carries a cost in time, energy and the humility to apologize quickly when wrong. 9) When you know that your friend is heading down the wrong path, you must offer no-judgmental correction - but only to your friend's face and never to his/her back. My prayer: "You are my example, Lord Jesus, in how to make and keep a friend. It was You who first reached out to love and care for me. Help me to do the same with others. Related Articles · More Articles Jesus said many would come in His name and deceive the hearts of the simple, sinful and proud. Eastern mysticism and meditation is a big thing in the gullible West. And one day a “world leader” will appear on the scene with the persuasion of a god and the heart of a devil. Jesus warns His children to know the Scriptures, live in obedience to the Father’s will, and stay alert to the signs of the times. They laugh no more. Now God’s description of how He will destroy the old earth and create a
new one makes perfect sense. The splitting of the atom turned many skeptics into believers.
After all, look what man himself is capable of doing with the atom and hydrogen bombs. Now
the fear is that nuclear weapons are being placed in the hands of madmen who wish to annihilate
their enemies. God has blessed man with incredible genius. We stand in awe as we watch men and women in a room full of computers and high-tech instruments guiding and landing spacecraft on distant planets. At that moment, we appear invincible. But then a mammoth tornado comes—or a terrifying hurricane—or rains that flood whole regions and never listen to our shouts to “Stop!”—or the shake that removes from under our feet any confidence or pride we carry, and leaves us numb with hardly enough breath to even utter the paralyzing word “EARTHQUAKE!”. And man is helpless in the face of it all! |
